Women, wise up!

Sometimes I hear women talking about their partners in a way that makes my blood boil. They are dismissive and even contemptuous when they discuss the ‘ridiculous’, ‘tacky’ or ‘disgusting’ things that get men going. On the other hand, men are supposed to be considerate and accepting of the female view of romance and sex. It is such blatant hypocrisy. Most of the men I know work really hard, not just pretending or going along with their partner’s needs but actually getting in touch with the female aspects of their own characters. If the women in their lives would make even half as much effort to understand what it is that men need sexually everyone would be much, much happier. I hasten to add that my own partner is not too bad in this respect (although I don’t think she’d suffer from spending some time reading Belle de jour‘s amazing blog.)